April 2, 2024

I won’t lie. I love golf. It’s my favorite sport and a lifelong passion. And if you listen to my weekly leadership podcast, How Leaders Lead, then you know that golf comes up quite a bit! I’ve gotten to have incredible conversations about leadership with people like Jack Nicklaus, “Spider” Miller, Justin Thomas, Augusta National Chairman Fred Ridley, USGA President Diane Murphy, and more. And on Thursday, April 11th, I’m releasing my SECOND conversation with Jon Rahm, one of the world’s best golfers, as he heads down to Augusta to defend his title as Masters champion. (Make sure you follow How Leaders Lead on Apple or Spotify so you don’t miss it!) There’s a good reason golf comes up so much in my podcast. See, golf isn’t just a game. It’s also the setting for some of life’s best wisdom—including plenty of incredible lessons on leadership and business. So with golf season in … forgive my pun … full swing, I wanted to unpack five key leadership principles that golf has helped me understand better. If you’re a golfer, you’ll love this. And if you’re not (yet), there are still plenty of insights here for you, too! Let’s jump in.
Ever noticed how every decent golfer has a pre-shot routine? It’s a repeatable set of actions they go through before each and every ball strike. It's not just for show—it's a carefully honed ritual that helps them get in the zone and stay focused under pressure. Golf teaches us that it’s key to have process and discipline around what really matters. For example, you might start your deep work with a cup of coffee and a quick meditation session. That repeatable process can “cue” your mind that it’s time to focus. Your team can benefit from routines, too. By setting a regular structure for meetings and check-ins, you can help everyone stay more aligned, connected, and productive. Take a lesson from golf and embrace routines. They’ll help you stay grounded, focused, and ready to tackle whatever challenges come your way.
Almost anyone who plays golf will tell you that ultimately, it's not really about technique, scores, and equipment (although we love all that stuff, too). It’s about the relationships you make out on the course. In fact, I’d guess that 75% of the guests on my podcast are people I got to know while playing golf. And there’s a good reason for that! You can learn almost everything you need to know about a person by spending four hours on a course with them. How they treat others. The way they keep score. How they respond to their good shots—and, more tellingly, their bad ones. It’s no different in business. Strategy and execution are vital, of course. But at the end of the day, the most satisfying part of work is the relationships you build with your team, your peers, and your customers. Make people your priority. Develop your team. Listen to customers. Be intentional about the culture you build. It’ll create the kind of trust and connection you need to drive strong results, too. Nobody wants to play with a golfer who has no regard for the other people on the course. So apply that same principle in leadership, and never let high-pressure stakes or goals keep you from putting people first.
When you stop and think about it, golf is a little ridiculous. There’s a 4.25” hole a quarter mile away from you. You’re supposed to get a tiny ball in it. All you have to help you is a bunch of fancy sticks. And it’s only supposed to take you a few tries! In a game like that, you’re bound to make some mistakes. When I hit a bad shot, I ask myself, why did that happen? I diagnose what went wrong, and then I rehearse the shot again, correcting my mistake. That simple action allows me to stop dwelling on the bad shot, so I can focus on the next shot and get back on track with my round. Every leader experiences setbacks, big and small. It’s how we respond to them that makes all the difference. Let's say things don’t go as planned for a day, or a meeting, or a whole project. Just like a bad shot, take a moment and learn from it. Then consider it history and go on to the next thing with what you’ve learned. Your ability to manage your mentality in situations when you need to bounce back is a huge piece of your success, both on the course and at work. –– I love golf for so many reasons, but I especially love how it’s helped me develop as a person and a leader. There are so many lessons waiting to be discovered on a golf course. Just like leadership, it’s a place where preparation is vital. Where discipline and relationships matter deeply. Where there’s always room to improve and learn from your mistakes. If you’re a golfer, I hope these parallels inspire you to up your leadership game. And if you’re not a golfer, look around your life and find ways you can glean leadership lessons from whatever activities you enjoy.